Domestic Violence
Domestic violence is any type of abuse that occurs within an intimate relationship as an attempt to dominate or control the other person. It can happen between past or current partners, spouses, or in dating relationships. Domestic violence can include but is not limited to:
- Control
- Physical abuse
- Sexual abuse
- Emotional abuse or intimidation
- Isolation
- Verbal abuse or threats
- Financial or economic abuse
Even after leaving an abusive relationship, individuals may have trouble trusting others or experience flashbacks of the trauma they experienced. In some cases individuals who suffered from domestic violence may go on to develop PTSD.
If you’ve experienced any of the above symptoms, you may be experiencing domestic violence. Please consider contacting your local authorities to help ensure your safety. Contact us, your local therapist in Toronto for a free 15 minute phone consultation to see how we can help.

Emotional Abuse
- Calling someone names or putting them down
- Constant criticism or attempts to manipulate
- Using shaming and belittling language
- Intentionally embarrassing someone in public
- Preventing someone from seeing friends and family
- Blaming someone’s actions on your unhealthy behaviours
- Making threats of any kind
- Making someone feel guilty for things
- Starting rumours about someone
- Telling someone what to do and what to wear
- Mind games, such as gaslighting
- Forced isolation
Physical Abuse
Physical abuse is any intentional and unwanted contact against a person or a person’s body which causes bodily injury, pain, or impairment. Physical abuse can involve any of the following acts:
- Scratching or biting
- Pushing, shoving, or slapping
- Kicking
- Choking or strangling
- Throwing things at someone
- Force feeding or denying food
- Using weapons or objects to harm another person
- Using physical restraints
- Pulling hair or grabbing clothing
- Neglect
Physical abuse often occurs alongside other forms of abuse including financial abuse, sexual abuse , and emotional abuse .
Sexual Abuse
- Anxiety about specific situations that did not previously cause anxiety
- Avoiding specific people or places
- Persistent sadness or depression
- Low self-esteem
- Disturbed sleep or nightmares
Sexual Harassment
- Unwelcome sexual advances
- Attempted rape or assault
- Unwanted sexual teasing, jokes, remarks, or questions
- Sexual comments about a person’s anatomy, clothing, or appearance
- Hugging, missing, patting, or touching a person without their consent
- Standing too close or brushing up against a person
- Whistling at someone or using cat calls
- Showing or sending unwanted sexual picture or other sexual images
- Using language that puts someone down on the basis of their gender
- Threatening job loss or punishment if a person does not accept sexual advances
- Stalking or unwanted phone calls, texts, or watching someone’s home