Domestic Violence

Domestic violence is any type of abuse that occurs within an intimate relationship as an attempt to dominate or control the other person. It can happen between past or current partners, spouses, or in dating relationships. Domestic violence can include but is not limited to: 

 

 

Even after leaving an abusive relationship, individuals may have trouble trusting others or experience flashbacks of the trauma they experienced. In some cases individuals who suffered from domestic violence may go on to develop PTSD.


If you’ve experienced any of the above symptoms, you may be experiencing domestic violence. Please consider contacting your local authorities to help ensure your safety. Contact us, your local therapist in Toronto for a free 15 minute phone consultation to see how we can help.

Emotional Abuse

Emotional abuse includes any non-physical behaviours such as threats, insults, constant monitoring, or stalking. Verbal abuse may not cause physical damage, but it can cause emotional pain. Additionally, emotional abuse can quickly escalate into physical abuse. Emotional abuse is an attempt to control another person in the same way that physical abuse does. However, an emotionally abuse person tries to control someone by playing with their emotions. 

Examples of emotional or verbal abuse can include: 
  • Calling someone names or putting them down 
  • Constant criticism or attempts to manipulate 
  • Using shaming and belittling language 
  • Intentionally embarrassing someone in public 
  • Preventing someone from seeing friends and family 
  • Blaming someone’s actions on your unhealthy behaviours 
  • Making threats of any kind
  • Making someone feel guilty for things 
  • Starting rumours about someone 
  • Telling someone what to do and what to wear 
  • Mind games, such as gaslighting
  • Forced isolation 

Physical Abuse

Physical abuse is any intentional and unwanted contact against a person or a person’s body which causes bodily injury, pain, or impairment. Physical abuse can involve any of the following acts: 

 

  • Scratching or biting 
  • Pushing, shoving, or slapping 
  • Kicking 
  • Choking or strangling
  • Throwing things at someone
  • Force feeding or denying food 
  • Using weapons or objects to harm another person 
  • Using physical restraints 
  • Pulling hair or grabbing clothing 
  • Neglect 

 

Physical abuse often occurs alongside other forms of abuse including financial abuse, sexual abuse , and emotional abuse

Sexual Abuse

Sexual abuse is a sexual behaviour or act that is forced upon a person without their consent. Also referred to as sexual assault or sexual violence, it can include unwanted sexual touching, forced sexual activities, and rape. Experiencing sexual abuse can lead to shock, fear, sadness, anxiety, and depression. Long term symptoms can include increased anxiety and PTSD

Signs and symptoms of someone experiencing sexual abuse can include: 

Sexual Harassment

Sexual harassment can be defined as any form of unwelcome sexual behaviour that’s offensive, humiliating, degrading, or intimidating. Sexual harassment can happen in multiple ways and can take place at school, work, or in public. Sexual harassment can include but is not limited to: 
  • Unwelcome sexual advances
  • Attempted rape or assault 
  • Unwanted sexual teasing, jokes, remarks, or questions 
  • Sexual comments about a person’s anatomy, clothing, or appearance 
  • Hugging, missing, patting, or touching a person without their consent 
  • Standing too close or brushing up against a person 
  • Whistling at someone or using cat calls 
  • Showing or sending unwanted sexual picture or other sexual images 
  • Using language that puts someone down on the basis of their gender 
  • Threatening job loss or punishment if a person does not accept sexual advances 
  • Stalking or unwanted phone calls, texts, or watching someone’s home 
Exposure to sexual harassment can cause an individual to feel stress, depression, withdraw from social situations, lose self-esteem, experience trauma, experience headaches or sleep problems, or have difficulty concentrating.